How Do You Show Love

A question that's often asked, is how can you show or express you're love? There's a general standpoint which is by saying I love you, doing traditional things cooking, cleaning, having sex and just making sure you're significant other is just satisfied being happy. But that's a small chunk of showing or expressing you're love. One of the strongest things is accountability, allowing you're identity not to be compromised, for the sake of you're relationship. Having an identity is important, because that's what's attracts the bee's to the honey lol. So when the nectar isn't so sweet one day do we fly away or we continue to harvest to make it more rich and sweet? Showing you're love is about growth, expanding, be knowledgeable of what's in front you of you're relationship goals. Knowing what areas to tap on and let nature takes it's course, you can't build love on restrictions that are selfless but more intuitive with the relationship as a whole. I've stamped my feet in the poo poo platter one to many times on unrealistic expectations such as if you've known you're significant other to be a liar, cheater, manipulator or anything else that's just unacceptable. What makes you think their going to change their ways? They won't, they may get more sneaky, a master of words but that's a sign of accountability on both parts and being aware that in all actuality neither of you can properly show love because it's been compromised. By accepting that doesn't mean that person isn't great for you, but you tap into what's the relationship worth. Is it worth you bending your goals to show love? No remember love is limitless and by showing you're love, be mindful that it's an uphill battle towards completion, it's never going to be all roses but when certain petals start to wilt, nourish it and let it continue to flourish and allow it to regain strength towards success.

Reboot (Pre Update)

Hey you guys, kinda sorta back lol. this video was made at an exact time in my life, where my energy was in complete bliss. So now I decided to upload this video to share how sometimes in life you need to Reboot the energy around you in order to be happy and find those moments that make you complete xoxo - Moiciara

The Balancing ACT

Whats the one thing about love, that always shows its true colors... EMOTIONS. I can't recall a time, when people around me never showed emotion, when dealing with issues, because if they didn't in all honesty. We wouldn't have anything in common. Now on to my topic for today the balancing act, meaning when dealing with others its not just the satisfaction of compromising, but it becomes a steady speed of constantly having a balancing act of the different dynamics of a relationship. The good, the bad and the ugly, oh I seen all factors of these which, Im sure you guys have too, the one thing that, stands loud and proud is how were able to narrow these feelings down into specific categories due to emotions we feel for the current issue. Love always give you these peeks inside of the true meaning of it, which it starts to become more and more like a scar or a wound. You always seem to be finding out new ways, new parts to the dynamic of what you feeling and as I stated it becomes a balancing act of the current situation, your feelings and how to separate it all, so you can become one with the outcome.
Lets see love is most importantly like a rollercoaster ride, you first prepare for yourself to take this leap of faith on love, to see where it goes. So then its all the lovey dovey stuff, the unexpected text messages and sweet phone calls and all the fondness of being in love... Now its been a little bit of time and things dont seem quite the same (what happened?) Barely hearing from them no sweet messages, there just seems to be some disconnect (why is that?), normally as humans we treat everything disposable, because its all an incontainable rush, we want everything all at the same time and once we get it, the rush slows down due to everything being given too much. This is where the balancing act comes into play never place all your eggs in one batch learn to always have a little snack in your goodie bag, Learn to think in third person, if you was you what would you want or vice versa how would they want it, love is an unexpected feeling there in all honesty is no way you can put a lock and key and give a set amount its all or nothing (ya dig?). Balancing your feelings can work by showing endless amount of love, but by always adjusting the emotion by emotion, teach yourself to not always be in a place of power learn to let someone else run the show. I have a problem with letting completely go due to my own issues, but im teaching myself to get the results you want you have to take the backseat and let someone else drive. Balancing is also important because a relationship is all about compromising, do you know how much it takes to give yourself to someone and someone give themself to you A LOT, and thats what you want, you want endless love that doesnt filll you with doubt, but fill with love remember that until next time xoxo - Moiciara

Life Waits for No One

As your constantly evolving as a person, there is always obstacles to overcome. A lot of times as people we get used to making excuses (I know I do, its a work in progress), but at the same time, we don't want excuses. This is where the chapter begins... LIFE WAITS FOR NO ONE and you know why? You have to always take control over your own situation, whether it's good, bad or indifferent. I know it's hard because when you've been rejected (which no one likes to be rejected) you have to consider it "water off a ducks back". People are always going to be judging you, and making you feel not important, but you have to remember that, you can either allow it to destroy you or continuously move forward... Now I'm going down the move forward path, there was a time when I didn't have anything to show for my worth (I still feel the way every now and then), but what I keep in mind what I do have to show for me is ME, you have yourself worth, your knowledge, your being, attitude, presence these are the things that count in life. Life does wait for you to grab it by the horns and take it to glory (hallelujah lol) So always remember if your looking to be successful in your life/career field you have to put yourself in the light that needs to shine directly upon you. Remember to take risk, healthy risk to implement yourself in situations where you see gain the things that matter the most to you love, life, and the pursuit of happiness. These goals will always fluctuate, do to other creative ideas, but if you want the simple things in life remember to always be your own number one. No one can take that away from you xoxo - Moiciara

Social Media Bad Romance

Hey you guys, I know it's been a while but I'm back with a brand new spanking video talking about the transitions social media plays in relationships. so hopefully you guys enjoys and spread the word xoxo- Moiciara

Meet Me (Yourself) Halfway

Today's video is about meeting yourself halway in order to meet each other halfway. Hope you guys enjoy xoxo - Moiciara

You'll Never Be

One thing about looking yourself in the mirror, is how one thing can be great and another you'll feel you have to work on. I've gotten older, I know I'm no longer a 16yr old boy who is petite skin and bones lol. I've put on a nice amount of weight and whether people see it or not I DO and that's all that matters to me lol, now I'm not saying I'm obsessive or anything but I do tend to dwell on what I want this to look like and what I want that to look like, I have to constantly tell myself, Benjamin you'll work on it, you'll get it together and get it all together... Once that day does come this is what I want you to get out of this message is that you'll never be skinny enough, healthy enough, or happy enough and you know why because we thrive off of fault. It's not a good thing but we always seem to find a problem area that needs a little TLC. I've been there time and time again and it does hurt you, you're gonna always bring something in your past to affect how something is happening in your present it's a part of our mind. It's our history and no one can take that away from us. But what makes you stronger is accepting the fault and moving forward, its never gonna be easy, but it will be challenging... why would you want something easy lol. I always find myself challenging myself without even doing it half time, remember trying to achieve other peoples expectations are setting you up for failure. It's like an light swtich that goes off and what its going to do is give you that extra strength to realize you'll become all the NEVER BE'S because what you will be is yourself and that's all you can shoot for is to be yourself remember that. xoxo - Moiciara