Money, Sex, Love...

From generation to generation, Money, Sex and Love have always been a topic. Such as: Does the money play a factor in the relationship? Do I enjoy the sex or should I seek it elsewhere? Is love the primary reason for this relationship? Let me answer all these... The answer is yes, no, hell yeah and hell no :) First starting with the Money; Money does play a factor in a relationship lets be honest, no one wants to date anyone who isn't by any means dating someone who can't foot the bill sometimes or purchase a gift here or there, it's the spontany of it that makes it a gesture versues a task. I've been in relationships and I've coughed a lot of "coinage" while others were a little to shy with their money. Walking into a relationship with someone can't consist of money because, money isn't a foundation its a necessity versuses the platform for the foundation. Secondly I refuse to fall in love with someone due to how much they have cause at the end of the day when were alone it's got to be more than just a billed that was paid or gift that was bought. Now onto Sex; oooh sex don't we all love this topic, starting out with sex is just the ultimate no no no... Why because just cause the sex is good, doesn't mean the relationship is. I'm not saying going by a "3 month rule" of some sort is worth doing to get to know the person better before giving up the draws. I belive having sex with someone does kinda in a sense set the tone for the relationship, you have to know if you all are sexually compatiable but at the same time, people don't know how to move forward after the sex, it's like all the mist of it was good but let's work on the communication, the interest, the moments, this is where a lot of folks hit the wall, because in our society we've always focused on a mantra of "get in, and get out", and that's not the best way to go into anything thinking setting the tone for moment is always better in the end with communication and each other's interest. Here comes Love; We've all embraced love with open arms, or we've rejected it with closed arms. Love is first and formost what makes the world go round you have to be able to give and receive in order to have functioning emotions. I love being in love because in a weird way it gives me clarity but at the same time reassurance of how amazing someone else can be, to want to be romantically involved with me. Love is like a constant reminder of life and how you can function for others besides yourself, I'm definitely an advocate for love so hey I'm #teamLOVE. I want to wrap all this by saying, that having a foundation is "The Primary" for any relationship getting to know someone on a intimate level is always going to set the tone of the course of the relationship, be open, honest and willing to trust, and you can't go wrong. Now I'm not saying you won't hit a few bumps in the road but it's all about the experience to see what works best for you (ding). What works best for you is always going to come first so always be mindful of that you set the TONE! xoxo- Moiciara