Inspire 2 Inspiration

Hey everybody, I'm back and I wanted to kick things off with showing some love to those that inspire me and hopefully you guys love this video as much as I do xoxo - Moiciara

You Think You Know... EVERYTHANG!

When you say something that people don't like or in a sarcastic tone, they say "you think you know, everything" and most of the time it's a 50/50 chance you may know what the hell your talking about but... why do you feel it necessary to impose that on others. Well as humans we feel it's necessary for us to show our worth (I know its very cave man thinking) but we do, no one can be better, faster or stronger, Because in our mind we feel our worth is more important than the next. Is this a bad trait Yes/No due to the fact we make a lot of impulsive decisions when it comes life and how we want to be perceived. I know I'm one of them, lol it's crazy, but due to me being a Libra (Balance Beam) I always feel it's fair to be able to compromise both sides of an issue. I know it's hard because you feel when your right no one can deprive you of that but what you have to keep in mind is that you can't do it all by yourself you need others to be able to inform you about the journey called life and how others experiences impact you, just like you impact them, knowing everything isn't always a good thing, you have to be able to let down that guard and speak from a vulnerable place that allows you to take that 1 second, to just be ok with the fact you're learning your evolving into a person who's multifaceted which is how people are remembered and thought of. I want to be able to help you guys know that it's ok to be vulnerable, everyday is just like riding a bike for the first time your going and going and sometimes you may not hit the brakes fast enough, but remember you are always going to be teaching yourself, but remember help is always there and when I mean always there! Even when you feel no one is, I've had my share of moments like this and I want you guys to know that as long as your alive and have a way to convey emotions someone is there for you. xoxo - Moiciara

How 2 Handle Ur LOVE

Learning to handle your love is the hardest of task, when in a relationship. Why? because in no shape of form can you control your feelings for someone, now don't get me wrong I'm not saying deny, deny, deny, lol; but what I'm saying is when your committed to someone you have to learn to handle your love. First and formost is by taking the person your with and examining them for who they are their likes and dislikes; now usually this is where you hit a brick wall, because usually when you hear something some you don't like you usually make the ugly face (like I just know you didn't say you don't like peanut butter sandwiches) which leads you into already closing your door of imagination and closing the good, that could come out of this situation.... So what do you do? You have to teach yourself, everytyhing in a relationship your not going to like about the person, but that's what makes the handling you're love more exciting, ok now I know I probably lost you, your probably reading this and like how does a person dislikes make it more exciting..... BECAUSE you know if your really into this person there is a strong chance that your going to try to think that you can change this aspect of them and it may just work. Once you've caught your fish *wink,wink* Now it's time to see what are they're goals and all that ooey gooey stuff that holds the love together. I usually like to play Oprah (don't knock it until you try it) because I want to know exactly what I'm getting into and I already know there are already gon' be a lot of things that are going to raise a red flag, but this is what you do you have to see where is the sexual connection is ( I know people love to act like sex isn't a major part in a relationship but in all honesty it's a good 75% of the relationship) because once you find this out and experience it you'll know how serious you are to take this relationship its a much needed process into getting to know the person. Learning something that's a fear is always great because it allows the person to be vulnerable and you get to see a side of them that your going to feel the need to connect with because this is going to be the aspect that holds the mental side of the relationship.... did I just say mental oh yes I did, it ain't all about the love making. Here we go with the mental aspect of the relationship, It's the hardest thing in the world to sync with someone mentally because at in instance notice, things can go completely in the different direction, I've had a lot of moments when things can catch me off guard and I'm like how can I reel this back in, what I do is realize it's ok to embrace your differences of conversations because it's all about compromising and taking in what you see as a road block and make it a highway on your road to victory with your love for this person. Overall I want you guys to understand handling your love is definitely no easy step, but what can be easy is you knowing your presence and existence in the relationship knowing that both of you, exist in this relationship for reason that you may never exactly be able to pinpoint, but what makes it worth as your both able to put those differences aside for the common factor which is L.O.V.E and embracing that will always win. xoxo- Moiciara