The Balancing ACT

Whats the one thing about love, that always shows its true colors... EMOTIONS. I can't recall a time, when people around me never showed emotion, when dealing with issues, because if they didn't in all honesty. We wouldn't have anything in common. Now on to my topic for today the balancing act, meaning when dealing with others its not just the satisfaction of compromising, but it becomes a steady speed of constantly having a balancing act of the different dynamics of a relationship. The good, the bad and the ugly, oh I seen all factors of these which, Im sure you guys have too, the one thing that, stands loud and proud is how were able to narrow these feelings down into specific categories due to emotions we feel for the current issue. Love always give you these peeks inside of the true meaning of it, which it starts to become more and more like a scar or a wound. You always seem to be finding out new ways, new parts to the dynamic of what you feeling and as I stated it becomes a balancing act of the current situation, your feelings and how to separate it all, so you can become one with the outcome.
Lets see love is most importantly like a rollercoaster ride, you first prepare for yourself to take this leap of faith on love, to see where it goes. So then its all the lovey dovey stuff, the unexpected text messages and sweet phone calls and all the fondness of being in love... Now its been a little bit of time and things dont seem quite the same (what happened?) Barely hearing from them no sweet messages, there just seems to be some disconnect (why is that?), normally as humans we treat everything disposable, because its all an incontainable rush, we want everything all at the same time and once we get it, the rush slows down due to everything being given too much. This is where the balancing act comes into play never place all your eggs in one batch learn to always have a little snack in your goodie bag, Learn to think in third person, if you was you what would you want or vice versa how would they want it, love is an unexpected feeling there in all honesty is no way you can put a lock and key and give a set amount its all or nothing (ya dig?). Balancing your feelings can work by showing endless amount of love, but by always adjusting the emotion by emotion, teach yourself to not always be in a place of power learn to let someone else run the show. I have a problem with letting completely go due to my own issues, but im teaching myself to get the results you want you have to take the backseat and let someone else drive. Balancing is also important because a relationship is all about compromising, do you know how much it takes to give yourself to someone and someone give themself to you A LOT, and thats what you want, you want endless love that doesnt filll you with doubt, but fill with love remember that until next time xoxo - Moiciara