Tuesday, May 12, 2015

How Do You Show Love

A question that's often asked, is how can you show or express you're love? There's a general standpoint which is by saying I love you, doing traditional things cooking, cleaning, having sex and just making sure you're significant other is just satisfied being happy. But that's a small chunk of showing or expressing you're love. One of the strongest things is accountability, allowing you're identity not to be compromised, for the sake of you're relationship. Having an identity is important, because that's what's attracts the bee's to the honey lol. So when the nectar isn't so sweet one day do we fly away or we continue to harvest to make it more rich and sweet? Showing you're love is about growth, expanding, be knowledgeable of what's in front you of you're relationship goals. Knowing what areas to tap on and let nature takes it's course, you can't build love on restrictions that are selfless but more intuitive with the relationship as a whole. I've stamped my feet in the poo poo platter one to many times on unrealistic expectations such as if you've known you're significant other to be a liar, cheater, manipulator or anything else that's just unacceptable. What makes you think their going to change their ways? They won't, they may get more sneaky, a master of words but that's a sign of accountability on both parts and being aware that in all actuality neither of you can properly show love because it's been compromised. By accepting that doesn't mean that person isn't great for you, but you tap into what's the relationship worth. Is it worth you bending your goals to show love? No remember love is limitless and by showing you're love, be mindful that it's an uphill battle towards completion, it's never going to be all roses but when certain petals start to wilt, nourish it and let it continue to flourish and allow it to regain strength towards success.